“I remember looking out of the window in the hospital after I delivered our baby girl. My feelings were so mixed at that time. I felt this incredible joy that I had brought this sweet diamond into the world and I wanted nothing more than to take her home and be with my husband and son,” said Tatiana. “On the other hand, I felt such fear and sadness that I would be bringing this baby back to such a freezing cold house. Other women wanted to go home as soon as they could, but I was thinking about how warm and cosy the hospital room was.”
It was winter in the village in central Moldova – and temperatures here drop well below freezing. Many families in rural Moldova struggle when winter comes: heating their homes is incredibly expensive, and many people living in poverty have to choose between food and warmth.
Tatiana’s family was already going through a tough time. Her husband, Ghenadie, had started to build them a house and their future looked promising – but then he had a stroke last Spring and has been unable to work since.“I wish I could be strong again and finish this house. I love to work, I wish I could do more,” Ghenadie said.
The cement floor of their home is covered with an old, woollen carpet patterned with big pale-pink roses that felt cold to the touch. The windows and door were not insulated properly against the cold, and the family were using tree branches to try and heat up the room.
“When I entered their house, I was shocked,” said Andrei, a staff member from Mission Without Borders. He had heard about the family’s difficult situation through the local church.
“It was as cold inside their home as it was outdoors", Andrei said. “All of the family members were wearing several layers of clothes. The father was suffering from the stroke he had had, the mother was pregnant and due to give birth, and the little boy was wearing lots of jackets and gloves to keep warm indoors. I talked with them about their situation and when I asked about what food they had for the day, the mother almost burst into tears as she showed me the empty cupboard where the food should be. All they had that day was half a bag of sugar. After I left them, I couldn’t believe what I had just seen.”
Andrei had a meeting with his church after visiting the family, and told them about their situation. It motivated them to take immediate action.